Tom, Dick and Harriet (2013)

People are voting emotionally.

I really wanted to like this movie. I feel terribly cynical trashing it, and that's why I'm giving it a middling 5. Actually, I'm giving it a 5 because there were some superb performances.

The movie is made so realistic it has a lot of that WoW feeling at the right moments and never tooo over the top. the suspense is done so well and the emotion is felt. Very well put together with the music and all.

While it is a pity that the story wasn't told with more visual finesse, this is trivial compared to our real-world problems. It takes a good movie to put that into perspective.

**Spoilers below**I found this movie to be absolutely "the same ol' same ol". Dialogue was rather clichéd and trite--nothing you haven't seen and heard before. The premise--oh, hey look, I lost my job and am too old to land another one, and I just found out my daughter needs a boatload of money for college by next week, so I'll just whip up this scheme--was a stretch. (BTW--in the real world, if you have a solid work record, yet you're told you're being let go essentially because you're too old/old looking, you'd probably think about filing an age discrimination lawsuit. In this movie, though, that idea never even comes up.)The father/daughter convos were especially silly, particularly toward the latter half of the movie, where I felt the father had every right to want his daughter to come home with him instead of being left alone with a con man (who, BTW, has an amazingly large and well-appointed apartment for a young man of uncertain means). Instead, the father is made out to be the "bad" guy, while the impulsive daughter is apparently supposed to be the voice of reason. Please.And here's something else I found offensive about this movie. The whole movie centers around the idea that Tom is being judged in the work world, and found wanting, based on his age and looks, rather than on his considerable talent. (He's 50 with some graying hair.) And yet his love interest is a good 15 years younger than he! At one point in the movie, a very stereotypically blue-collar middle-aged NY waitress points out that Tom is a good age for *her*. But the movie delivers this observation in a manner that clearly telegraphs to the audience the message "As if...!" See, it's terribly wrong to consider a man washed up at his job strictly based on looks and age, but it's okay to assume that this same man, looking for romance, will of course pair up with a much younger woman, and not a woman actually close to his own age.Thanks for the double standard, Hallmark.

In Tom, Dick & Harriet, Steven Weber plays Tom, a successful adman who unfortunately is on the wrong side of 50. When his staid, uptown ad agency gets taken over by a hip downtown one, Tom gets fired because he doesn't have the right image. And as we know, image is everything in advertising. Unable to land a new job and desperate, he hires Dick, a 25-year old con man to be his front. Pretending to be a hotshot copywriter, Dick gets hired at the agency that fired Tom and the scam works - until both men fall for the beautiful and smart Harriet, an art director at the agency.Though the premise for this rom-com works well and the actors are all charming and give winning performances, this comedy has a a much more serious underlying theme - ageism. In the 50's there was a blacklist, today there is a greylist, Tom is told when trying to land a new job. People are not always judged by talent and experience but by age and appearance. But this message goes down easy in this witty, funny and fast paced movie. We are made to care about the plights of all the characters: Tom, who is fighting to win both the girl and his self respect; Dick, who after a troubled childhood is trying to find his place in the world; Harriet, who is torn between the two men; and Kelly, Tom's rebellious daughter who is trying to re-establish a bond with her father that seems to have been lost along the way.This is not your typical Hallmark movie - the acting, directing and writing are indeed something special. (The film has received several international nominations). So if you're looking for a sharp romantic comedy with something on its mind, check out Tom, Dick & Harriet.Note: The movie is also being shown under the alternate title: "All's Fair in Love & Advertising".

Tom Dick and Harriet's premise was that Tom Burns (Steven Weber) lost his job at an ad agency mainly because he wasn't hip or young enough to appeal to the coveted teenage through early 20s demographic. Then a chance meeting with two grifters ended up changing his life for the better to a certain extent.Weber is one of the better actors in the business and he showed it on this Hallmark movie of the week.He had to deal with his daughter moving into his apartment and life, he had to find a way to make enough money (after getting fired) to pay for alimony, his daughter's college tuition, rent and other bills, etc. while trying to find the right woman and right way(s) to get his job back at the same agency that didn't want him around.The standouts in this film were Weber and Andrew Francis (Dick Varnett). Meanwhile, Tom, Dick, and Harriet was a sweet and innocuous film that showed that it's not about looks, money, and image. It's about experience and talent. But its too bad majority of the people in this world don't understand that.

Steven Weber's ad agency has just been folded into another and he is out of a job at fifty -- too old to get a new job despite impressive credentials. He has bills to pay, so he gets con man Andrew Francis to act as his beard. Michele Harrison starts off as the third leg in the romantic comedy until MacKenzie Porter, as Weber's daughter serves to separate the men from the boys.So what makes this better than the average Hallmark romcom? It's difficult for me to mention many specific issues. One is the tentative manner the actors all assume. It makes it clear the characters are finding their ways through unfamiliar territory. Another is the photography. This romcom is rooted in the advertising industry and director of photography Neil Cervin composes a lot of shots like print ads and TV ads instead of the more naturalistic lighting and subtler composition that story films are usually shot in.More than these technical issues, there is a thoughtfulness in the script, particularly an exchange in which the leads decry the youth-addicted culture. Yes, this panders to the demographics for the Hallmark Channel, but I'm a member of that demographic. I don't mind having my ego stroked occasionally.