It's Not You, It's Me (2013)
Serial commitment-phobe, Dave, is reeling from his decision to break up with his near perfect, now ex-girlfriend. As he tries to forget her, his battling inner voices come to life and cloud his mind with conflicting desires. Meanwhile, Carrie's own disjointed inner voices push her to move on with someone less complicated. Sensing time is short, Dave embarks on a sincere and sometimes fumbled personal journey to conquer his fear of commitment.
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One of the best films i have seen
Excellent characters with emotional depth. My wife, daughter and granddaughter all enjoyed it...and me, too! Very good movie! You won't be disappointed.
There are moments in this movie where the great movie it could've been peek out... They're fleeting, here, but they're worth savoring, and they happen often enough to make it worth your while.
The movie had a great idea (people representing sides/thoughts of each couple). It's a small budget film (done in 8 days) but it had real-to-life scenes like the trains going by, etc. which makes it feel that it's not so small budget. And, with several known actors (who did a good job), it's worth taking the time to see this film.I thought it was a little heavy on Dave's testosterone levels... (a few too many F-words for me and a little too much sex for a romantic comedy) but that trails off early enough to sit and really enjoy a chick flick. And for you guys.. guess you can enjoy the testosterone levels at the beginning of the movie.. and then let your girl curl up next to you as you watch the rest.
I loved this movie!! My husband (of 11 years) and I watched this together and we both loved it! Usually he is all about the action movies and I have to twist his arm to watch a rom-com. We really laughed A LOT during this film. It makes you appreciate the crazy crap we go through to find love. We ALL have those voices in put head that make falling in love a bit like a roller coaster ride, and it's fun to see it play out on the big screen. The character development is fun to watch and as the story unfolds you really get a sense for why commitment phobes act like they do, and more importantly how they can grow and change. Such a great film for both sexes... Definitely not just a "chick flick". Take your boyfriend/ husband and laugh together!
I was invited to see the film "It's Not You, It's Me. and I really enjoyed it. The love the creativity of the storyline. That way of live really do exist and sometimes we are not sure what to listen to. I can definitely identify with being surrounded with so many different choices. Not one time did I ever get bored or did I got lost. Nathan's ideas and writing revealed how easy it is to get caught up, lost, regretful and damaged all at the same time. I applaud Nathan on his creativity and thought process. The actors all did a awesome job and did a well in portraying those thoughts and feelings. Greay job Nathan and keep those creative juices flowing! I look to see your name on the screen a lot more!
I'm always on the lookout for great little indie movies and in "It's Not You, It's Me," I've found one I was shocked at watching this movie because these were the exact things that were going through my head when i was dealing with all my commitment issues in my 20s and 30s. It showed my fears of both loneliness, commitment, choices and regret. And it added the woman's perspective so know I know they were going through the same thing. The ensemble cast is really great. Each "internal" character fits their role from the kid to the player to accountant. Ross McCall is phenomenal as the lead. Jolee Carter is great You wonder why he would leave her but then again you've done it yourself time and time again. I'd definitely recommend it.